Ok, men, listen up. The number one tip from women on how to have better sex and improve your love life is…drum roll please…romance!
Yes, men, romance your lady more often and things just might get heated up in the bedroom more frequently.
To be romantic you don’t have to go up and spend thousands of dollars on diamonds, though I’m sure if you have plenty of extra cash lying around, diamonds can’t hurt. However, there are many less expensive ways to be romantic and get her in the mood more often.
How to Romance Your Woman
- Buy her some flowers
- Take her out to dinner
- Make her a nice romantic dinner
- Buy her some candles, light them, and turn down the lights
- Buy her some sexy lingerie - the kind she’ll actually wear - French maid costumes don’t count.
- Take her shopping and help her pick out some clothes.
Once you have set the scene with some romance, and you have gotten her in the mood, here are some tips to make sex more romantic and fun.
5 Sex Tips For Men
- Sex is not a race. Slow down, take your time and remember that, though the destination is fun, sex is a journey, not a destination.
- Take a trip down memory lane. Did you used to seduce her in the backseat of the car? Relive those memories. Did you used to have a quickie on the kitchen counter? Well, the counter’s still there! Reliving those long-ago and far-away encounters will reenergize a lagging sex life.
- Turn off the TV. The less the television is on, the more sex you’ll have. Don’t believe it? Try it and you may be amazed.
- Foreplay should not be routine. If you always follow a certain routine, change it up every once in awhile. You might be amazed at how fun this can be for her - and you!
- Talk to her. Communication is the key to any successful relationship. You have to talk about the kids, money, chores, and schedules. Don’t forget to also talk about sex. Tell her what you like, what you fantasize about, and what you would like to do in the bedroom (or anywhere else). Ask her what she likes, fantasizes about, and what she would like to do in the bedroom. Communication also includes compliments - flattery will get you almost anywhere!
Most everyone has heard that the three most important things in real estate are location, location, and location. Well, the three most important things that keep a woman interested in sex are romance, romance, and romance.
So, men! Visit the CAHPA members's sites, pick up a romantic gift and remember that romance is truly the key to her heart and other parts of her anatomy. Romance is one of the best ways to improve your love life.